Parents faced with this question need to ask themselves what’s
important to them. My family comes
first, and helping and supporting my
wife, Joan, and our children, Holly and Sam, is at the top of the list.
Joan and I do not consider our legacy to our children to be wealth or
fame, but the opportunity to pursue happiness by following their own
paths.
Just as Joan and I both made our own decisions about what we wanted
to do, with our parents’ support, we want our kids to have the same
experiences. My parents were incredibly encouraging, hoping only to help
me succeed in my endeavors. My grandfather was a judge and my father
was a barrister, but they never pressured me to pursue a career in law,
and I didn’t have the desire to follow in their professional footsteps.
Instead, my mother’s passion for entrepreneurship turned out to be a major driving force for me.
In the unfortunate situation where a young person faces family
opposition, a little rebellious spirit can help her to follow her own
dreams rather than be stuck trying to meet others’ expectations. These
are good instincts, not mere youthful foolishness: When you love what
you do, you are a lot more likely to succeed.
I started up Student Magazine as a teenager because I wanted to tell
stories that mattered to me, especially about the protests against the
Vietnam War, and to showcase the work of great artists and writers. And
Sam co-founded Sundog Pictures to tell engaging, inspiring stories he
cares about. He and his team certainly did that in their first feature,
“Breaking the Taboo,” which took an uncompromising look at the failed
global war on drugs. Sam is also working with the Virgin Group, and Joan
and I will support whatever direction he chooses to take.
As you pursue your career, your efforts may sometimes meet with failure.
Don’t be discouraged -- one of the best ways to learn how to do
anything is to make mistakes. It took time and a lot of errors before I
achieved any successes. (And as a note to parents: If you are looking
over your children’s shoulders all the time, they will miss the chance
to grow by making missteps.)
Also, if you are adventurous in your choices, you’ll have a lot more
fun and excitement, along with the chance to pursue further success.
I’m fortunate that Sam and Holly share my daring streak, and together
we have broken a few world records together and climbed Mont Blanc! I
can’t wait for us to go up into space together through Virgin Galactic.
From a young age, Holly dreamed of being a doctor, and we
wholeheartedly supported her. We were very proud when she earned her
medical degree in 2007 and later joined the neurology department of
Chelsea and Westminster Hospital in London. We were equally pleased when
she later started working with the Virgin Group. She has taken the
skills she developed in her medical career and is using them in areas
she has a passion for, such as working with our nonprofit foundation,
Virgin Unite. This year she is leading Free The Children’s first We Day
UK in London, bringing young people together to celebrate the positive
changes that they are making in their local and global communities. We
couldn’t be prouder of her efforts.
It is very sad that some young people are not given the freedom to
make their own way in the world. They will need assistance from others
to follow their dreams, and we hope to help them at the Branson Centre
of Entrepreneurship in Johannesburg, which we started up to support
African entrepreneurs with funding, guidance and mentorship. While I
don’t know the ins and outs of the African film industry specifically,
there are certainly opportunities for young filmmakers from the
continent: One initiative that caught my eye is Focus Features’ Africa
First program, which supports emerging African filmmakers with financial
aid and mentorship.
We have just spent the holiday season together as a family, and Joan
and I were happy to see that our kids were pursuing their ideas with
optimism and enthusiasm. As the Rev. Henry Ward Beecher said: “There are
only two lasting bequests we can hope to give our children. One of
these is roots, the other, wings.” Wherever you are, and no matter what
your financial situation as parents, the best thing you can do for your
children is to give them the confidence and freedom to fly, and the
knowledge that there will always be a loving home waiting for them when
they land.
Credit:Richard Branson
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